• Welcome In

    This space holds the real and whole me — the parts shaped by grief, unexpected change, spiritual awakening, and the steady rebuilding of a life from the inside out. Every wound, every lesson, every moment of my becoming informs the way I guide, the way I hold space, and the way I see you. As I continue deepening my own self-mastery, I bring the evolving wisdom into every experience allowing transformation to unfold in us both — uniquely, in it's appropriate rythym.

    I welcome you here fully, gently, and without condition... extending all measures of honor and grace.

    My Story

    There was a time I believed I had to choose between being powerful and being present. I built a life of achievement and leadership - the version of me who knew how to show up, stand tall, and carry everything without being carried herself.

    But behind the composure, I was unraveling quietly. Heartbreaks, severed ties, endings I didn't see coming. Losses that hollowed me out. A body that suddenly refused to be ignored—blood pressure soaring into emergency rooms, medical warnings spoken at me like prophecies I refused to accept.

    I chose not to claim disease. I chose to claim healing.

    So I listened — to my body, to Spirit, to the whispers beneath the pain. I turned to the holistic community that had always been home for me. Herbs, energy work, Reiki, chakra alignment, emotional restoration. I used every tool I've studied and every truth I lived. And I've walked beside the people I love through their own physical and emotional recoveries, holding their energy as sacredly as I tended my own.

    But the deepest initiation wasn't physical. It was life itself.

    For several years, I experienced personal long-suffering. I had no home, no steady income, no foundation beneath my feet, and still—learned to anchor myself from within. I mastered my emotions in the middle of instability. I learned how to stay steady when nothing around me was steady. I learned how to find joy when walls couldn't hold me, and how to create peace when nothing in my world was peaceful.

    Those years didn't break me; they refind me. I experienced my life as a bend and why I do the work I do. That’s how Lifebending was born. And now it lives through me, as an offering to you.

    I’m Tameca Nicole. And if you’re walking through something tender, tangled, or turning — I’ll walk with you.

    What I Do

    Lifebending is the sacred practice, my personal gift, of helping others bend—not break—as they move through grief, identity shifts, dis-ease of all kind, reinvention, and soul remembering.

    I don't fix people. I sit with them. I listen beneath the words. I hold the space the nervous system has never had permission to rest in.

    I have lived the ache. I know the terrain—the spiritual, emotional, and physical layers of breaking open. I under, inner, and overstand what it means to meet someone with love instead of repair.

    I don’t offer formulas. I offer presence. And my presence heals because I’ve let it heal me.


    This isn’t coaching. This is companionship for your crossing—the sacred walk back to yourself.

    And if you’ve found your way here, you’re already on the path.

    Who I AM

    I AM an author, certified Reiki Master, emotional wellness guide, and compassionate companion for those moving through change, overwhelm, or seasons of uncertainty. I offer one-on-one support, gentle energy work, and honest, heart-centered conversation. My work creates a soft, sacred place for people to pause, breathe, and find their way back into alignment—mind, body, spirit, and self.

    In addition to private work, I lead workshops, group experiences, and speaking engagements creating spaces where healing conversations unfold naturally and people feel seen, safe, grounded and whole again.